Tactical rapport-delay

Don't go deep until there is spark — attraction before comfort with a longer name

Tactical rapport-delay

Conversation (Commons). Spark first, then the long talk.
Field	Pickup
Also known as	delay rapport
Origin	Iceberg layer 9
Related	Attraction before comfort; Rapport; Teasing

Tactical rapport-delay is layer-9 wording for attraction before comfort: don't go therapist-deep until there is spark. Method is already on that page.

Method

1. Tease and lead first.
2. Then a real question.
3. Don't delay rapport forever — that's just not being a person.

Failure mode

Never being real. That's a mask, not a tactic.

See also

• Attraction before comfort
• Rapport
• Deep diving
• Teasing