Don't simp

Don't invoice her for being harmless; have intent and a life

Don't simp

Dice (Commons). Simp is the invoice for being harmless.
Field	Inner game
Also known as	simping, not a simp
Origin	Internet slang on the iceberg
Related	Neediness; Good-boy points; Don't be a friend; Pedestal

Don't simp is internet slang for the nice-guy invoice. In practice: same object as neediness and good-boy points. Have intent, have a life, qualify. You can still be kind. Kind plus invoice is the problem.

Method

1. No unpaid casework.
2. No pedestal.
3. Ask. Lead. Walk if it's one-way.

Failure mode

Using 'simp' to mock ordinary warmth. That's not this school.

See also

• Neediness
• Good-boy points
• Don't be a friend
• Pedestal