Assume rapport
 Conversation (Commons). Talk like you're already in.
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| Field | Pickup |
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| Also known as | assuming rapport |
| Origin | Iceberg; cousin of assume attraction |
| Related | Assume attraction; Rapport; Direct game; Grounding |
Assume rapport is iceberg wording for talking like you already have a beat — not 'nice to meet you' stiffness. Pair it with assume attraction. In practice: warm, specific, grounding in the room. Not fake old-friends theater.[1][2]
Method
- Skip the interview opener if you can be a person instead.
- Use the room. Use her actual details.
- If she is stiff, you assumed too hard. Calibrate.
Failure mode
Fake intimacy with a stranger. Creepy, and it shows.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.