Never seek approval
 Dice (Commons). Approval-seeking is auditioning.
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| Field | Inner game |
|---|---|
| Also known as | don't seek approval, non-supplication |
| Origin | Girls Chase / iceberg |
| Related | Neediness; Qualification (pickup); Pedestal; Outcome independence |
Never seek approval is the inner-game name for not auditioning. House reading: qualify her; do not qualify yourself. Résumé, money talk, 'I'm a nice guy' are the leak. Neediness is the feeling; this is the behavior.[1][2][3]
Method
- Cut the speech about why she should like you.
- Ask a real screen. Have a deal-breaker.
- If you want a laugh, tease. Don't fish.
Failure mode
Seeking approval by pretending not to care. Incongruent.
See also
References
- ↑ Girls Chase. girlschase.com. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Chase Amante. Newbie Assignment. Skilled Seducer. 3 November 2012. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.