Neediness
Appearance
| Field | Inner game |
|---|---|
| Also known as | supplication
|
Neediness is running the interaction from scarcity: she must reply, this set must work, Saturday cannot be spent alone. Girls Chase has spent years on the same object under outcome independence and non-supplication: own projects, tolerate solitude, other friends, say what you want, do not make her the entire scaffolding.
It is the inner face of one-itis and the usual leak of frame. Giving people outs and not making one girl the whole night is the same rule in a crowded venue.
See also
Sources
- Girls Chase material on non-supplication / working to impress (see also the approach-walls essay).
- Outcome independence; One-itis.