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{{Infobox term | {{Infobox term | ||
| name | | name = Let her talk about herself | ||
| also | | also = let her talk | ||
| field | | field = Pickup | ||
| origin | | origin = Folk / iceberg; house use is [[investment]] | ||
| related = [[Investment]]; [[Rapport]]; [[Deep diving]]; [[Grounding]] | | related = [[Investment]]; [[Rapport]]; [[Deep diving]]; [[Grounding]] | ||
| image | | image = Conversation.jpg | ||
| caption | | caption = Conversation (Commons). Let her spend words. Then tease and lead. | ||
| alt | | alt = Conversation | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''Let her talk about herself''' is folk rapport. In practice: that is [[investment]] if you shut up and then do something with it. A twenty-minute interview with no tease and no lead is [[don't fix her problems]]'s cousin — you became the clerk.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia | '''Let her talk about herself''' is folk rapport. In practice: that is [[investment]] if you shut up and then do something with it. A twenty-minute interview with no tease and no lead is [[don't fix her problems]]'s cousin — you became the clerk.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Revision as of 09:06, 18 September 2026
 Conversation (Commons). Let her spend words. Then tease and lead.
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| Field | Pickup |
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| Also known as | let her talk |
| Origin | Folk / iceberg; house use is investment |
| Related | Investment; Rapport; Deep diving; Grounding |
Let her talk about herself is folk rapport. In practice: that is investment if you shut up and then do something with it. A twenty-minute interview with no tease and no lead is don't fix her problems's cousin — you became the clerk.[1][2]
Method
- One real question. Let her go.
- Tease a detail. Ground.
- Lead. Talking is not the whole seduction.
Failure mode
Interrogation. Or never asking because you were performing.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.