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{{Infobox term | {{Infobox term | ||
| name | | name = Boundaries are attractive | ||
| also | | also = having boundaries | ||
| field | | field = Pickup | ||
| origin | | origin = Folk / iceberg; house use is [[qualification (pickup)|qualification]] | ||
| related = [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Frame (seduction)]]; [[Pedestal]]; [[Congruence]] | | related = [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Frame (seduction)]]; [[Pedestal]]; [[Congruence]] | ||
| image | | image = Chess pieces.jpg | ||
| caption | | caption = Chess (Commons). A boundary is a standard you keep. | ||
| alt | | alt = Chess pieces | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''Boundaries are attractive''' is folk advice that is true when the boundary is real. In practice: [[qualification (pickup)|qualification]] and a deal-breaker you will walk on. Announcing your boundaries as a speech is a résumé.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia | '''Boundaries are attractive''' is folk advice that is true when the boundary is real. In practice: [[qualification (pickup)|qualification]] and a deal-breaker you will walk on. Announcing your boundaries as a speech is a résumé.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Revision as of 09:05, 18 September 2026
 Chess (Commons). A boundary is a standard you keep.
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| Field | Pickup |
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| Also known as | having boundaries |
| Origin | Folk / iceberg; house use is qualification |
| Related | Qualification (pickup); Frame (seduction); Pedestal; Congruence |
Boundaries are attractive is folk advice that is true when the boundary is real. In practice: qualification and a deal-breaker you will walk on. Announcing your boundaries as a speech is a résumé.[1][2]
Method
- Have one thing you will actually leave over. Leave if it hits.
- Don't explain the philosophy.
- Warmth plus a wall beats a wall with a TED talk.
Failure mode
Boundaries as a brand. Or no boundaries plus a podcast about them.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.