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{{Short description|Who is jumping through whose hoops}} | {{Short description|Who is jumping through whose hoops}} | ||
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| name | | image = Chess pieces.jpg | ||
| also | | caption = Chess pieces (Commons). Who is jumping through whose hoops. | ||
| field | | alt = Chess pieces | ||
| origin | | name = Hoop theory | ||
| also = hoops, jumping through hoops | |||
| field = Pickup | |||
| origin = PUA Lingo / Mystery-era boards | |||
| related = [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Frame (seduction)]]; [[Compliance (pickup)]] | | related = [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Frame (seduction)]]; [[Compliance (pickup)]] | ||
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'''Hoop theory''' is pickup slang for who is jumping through whose hoops. If you are always explaining, fetching, proving, you are in her frame. If she is telling stories to impress you, she is [[qualification (pickup)|qualifying]] herself.<ref name="lingo">{{cite web |url=http://www.pualingo.com/ |title=PUA Lingo |author=Vince Lin |website=PUA Lingo |date=2008 |access-date=11 September 2026}}</ref> | '''Hoop theory''' is pickup slang for who is jumping through whose hoops. If you are always explaining, fetching, proving, you are in her frame. If she is telling stories to impress you, she is [[qualification (pickup)|qualifying]] herself.<ref name="lingo">{{cite web |url=http://www.pualingo.com/ |title=PUA Lingo |author=Vince Lin |website=PUA Lingo |date=2008 |access-date=11 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
In practice: this is [[frame (seduction)|frame]] plus standards. It is not a party trick of making people do dumb asks. Cheap compliance tests ('hold this') are a yes-ladder, not a personality. | |||
== See also == | == See also == | ||
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* [[Frame (seduction)]] | * [[Frame (seduction)]] | ||
* [[Disqualification]] | * [[Disqualification]] | ||
* [[Demonstration of higher value]] | |||
* [[Bait, hook, reel, release]] | |||
== References == | == References == | ||
Latest revision as of 01:03, 19 September 2026
 Chess pieces (Commons). Who is jumping through whose hoops.
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| Field | Pickup |
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| Also known as | hoops, jumping through hoops |
| Origin | PUA Lingo / Mystery-era boards |
| Related | Qualification (pickup); Frame (seduction); Compliance (pickup) |
Hoop theory is pickup slang for who is jumping through whose hoops. If you are always explaining, fetching, proving, you are in her frame. If she is telling stories to impress you, she is qualifying herself.[1]
In practice: this is frame plus standards. It is not a party trick of making people do dumb asks. Cheap compliance tests ('hold this') are a yes-ladder, not a personality.
See also
- Qualification (pickup)
- Compliance (pickup)
- Frame (seduction)
- Disqualification
- Demonstration of higher value
- Bait, hook, reel, release