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{{Short description|Stop auditioning; screen instead}} | {{Short description|Stop auditioning; screen instead}} | ||
{{Infobox term | {{Infobox term | ||
| name | | name = Never seek approval | ||
| also | | also = don't seek approval, non-supplication | ||
| field | | field = Inner game | ||
| origin | | origin = pickup literature / iceberg | ||
| related = [[Neediness]]; [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Pedestal]]; [[Outcome independence]] | | related = [[Neediness]]; [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Pedestal]]; [[Outcome independence]] | ||
| image | | image = Dice.jpg | ||
| caption | | caption = Dice (Commons). Approval-seeking is auditioning. | ||
| alt | | alt = Dice | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''Never seek approval''' is the inner-game name for not auditioning. | '''Never seek approval''' is the inner-game name for not auditioning. In practice: [[qualify]] her; do not qualify yourself. Résumé, money talk, 'I'm a nice guy' are the leak. [[Neediness]] is the feeling; this is the behavior.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Latest revision as of 09:06, 18 September 2026
 Dice (Commons). Approval-seeking is auditioning.
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| Field | Inner game |
|---|---|
| Also known as | don't seek approval, non-supplication |
| Origin | pickup literature / iceberg |
| Related | Neediness; Qualification (pickup); Pedestal; Outcome independence |
Never seek approval is the inner-game name for not auditioning. In practice: qualify her; do not qualify yourself. Résumé, money talk, 'I'm a nice guy' are the leak. Neediness is the feeling; this is the behavior.[1][2]
Method
- Cut the speech about why she should like you.
- Ask a real screen. Have a deal-breaker.
- If you want a laugh, tease. Don't fish.
Failure mode
Seeking approval by pretending not to care. Incongruent.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.