Reward and relate
| Field | Pickup |
|---|---|
| Also known as | reward & relate |
| Origin | PUA Lingo / Mystery-era |
| Related | Qualification (pickup); Push-pull |
Reward and relate is the A3 follow-through: when she shows a trait you actually like, you reward it (genuine pull) and relate (a small story of your own), instead of poker-facing the whole night.[1]
It is how qualification stays human. All screen and no reward is an interview.