Good-boy points

Credit you think you earn by being harmless

Good-boy points

Dice (Commons). There is no ledger for being harmless.
Field	Inner game
Also known as	good-boy vs bad-boy points, nice-guy ledger
Origin	Iceberg
Related	Neediness; Don't be a friend; Polarization; Pedestal

Good-boy points vs bad-boy points is iceberg slang for the nice-guy ledger: you were helpful, therefore you are owed. In practice: there is no ledger. Warmth plus intent beats harmless plus invoice. Polarization and sexualization are the missing half, not 'become a jerk.'

Method

1. Drop the invoice. If you want her, show it.
2. Keep the parts of 'good' that are actually standards (not cruel, not a liar).
3. Bad-boy as a costume is tryhard.

Failure mode

Collecting points. She did not agree to the game.

See also

• Neediness
• Don't be a friend
• Pedestal
• Polarization