Don't chase
 Door (Commons). Don't chase: you have somewhere to be.
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| Field | Pickup |
|---|---|
| Also known as | not chasing, stop chasing |
| Origin | Folk line; pickup usage outcome independence |
| Related | Outcome independence; Takeaway (pickup); Investment; Pedestal |
Don't chase is folk advice that is true only after you have a self and other options. On this wiki it means: stop pouring into a maybe. Investment should tilt toward her. Later pickup: takeaway, leading a real next beat, and a calendar that is not her.[1][2][3]
Method
- If you are the only one suggesting times, stop. Let the silence work or walk.
- Have somewhere to be. That is a real takeaway, not a sulk.
- Qualify. If you cannot name a deal-breaker, you are chasing. See pedestal.
Failure mode
Performing 'I don't chase' while texting six times. That is neediness.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Chase Amante. Newbie Assignment. Skilled Seducer. 3 November 2012. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.