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| name | | name = Don't always be available | ||
| also | | also = not always available, scarcity of time | ||
| field | | field = Pickup | ||
| origin | | origin = Folk / pickup logistics | ||
| related = [[Logistics (seduction)]]; [[Outcome independence]]; [[Don't chase]]; [[Takeaway (pickup)]] | | related = [[Logistics (seduction)]]; [[Outcome independence]]; [[Don't chase]]; [[Takeaway (pickup)]] | ||
| image | | image = Dice.jpg | ||
| caption | | caption = Dice (Commons). Time has a price. | ||
| alt | | alt = Dice | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''Don't always be available''' is folk scarcity. In practice: your time is a resource. You have work, friends, a gym, other plans. That is [[logistics (seduction)|logistics]] plus [[outcome independence]], not a game of making her wait for its own sake.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia | '''Don't always be available''' is folk scarcity. In practice: your time is a resource. You have work, friends, a gym, other plans. That is [[logistics (seduction)|logistics]] plus [[outcome independence]], not a game of making her wait for its own sake.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Latest revision as of 09:05, 18 September 2026
Dice (Commons). Time has a price.
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| Field | Pickup |
|---|---|
| Also known as | not always available, scarcity of time |
| Origin | Folk / pickup logistics |
| Related | Logistics (seduction); Outcome independence; Don't chase; Takeaway (pickup) |
Don't always be available is folk scarcity. In practice: your time is a resource. You have work, friends, a gym, other plans. That is logistics plus outcome independence, not a game of making her wait for its own sake.[1][2]
Method
- Do not clear Saturday because she might text.
- Offer real windows: 'Thursday after 7.' If that misses, another window — not infinite.
- In set, a false time constraint is a claimed elsewhere. A real one is you actually leaving.
Failure mode
Ghosting as a strategy. Or the reverse: always on, always yes. Both miss the point.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.