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'''Draw with your presence''' is iceberg wording for occupying space so people notice you before you speak. | '''Draw with your presence''' is iceberg wording for occupying space so people notice you before you speak. In practice: [[open body language]], still feet, a face that is not scanning for threat. It is a fundamental. It is not staring down the bar.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="na">{{cite web |url=https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/ |title=Newbie Assignment |author=Chase Amante |website=Skilled Seducer |date=3 November 2012 |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Revision as of 08:56, 18 September 2026
 Smile (Commons). Presence is space plus calm, not volume.
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| Field | Fundamentals |
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| Also known as | presence, occupy space |
| Origin | later pickup writing fundamentals / iceberg |
| Related | Open body language; State; Preselection; Walk |
Draw with your presence is iceberg wording for occupying space so people notice you before you speak. In practice: open body language, still feet, a face that is not scanning for threat. It is a fundamental. It is not staring down the bar.[1][2][3]
Method
- Slow down the walk-in. Assignment posture.
- Stop fidgeting the phone.
- Then open. Presence without a walk-up is just standing there.
Failure mode
Looming. Or presence as a substitute for talking.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Chase Amante. Newbie Assignment. Skilled Seducer. 3 November 2012. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.