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'''Assume attraction''' is Chase Amante's stance: walk up as if there is already something to test, not as if you are applying for a job. | '''Assume attraction''' is Chase Amante's stance: walk up as if there is already something to test, not as if you are applying for a job. later pickup essay, March 2014. It is a starting bet, not a trance.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="na">{{cite web |url=https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/ |title=Newbie Assignment |author=Chase Amante |website=Skilled Seducer |date=3 November 2012 |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Revision as of 08:56, 18 September 2026
 Eye contact (Commons). Assume a spark, then read.
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| Field | Mindset |
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| Also known as | assuming attraction |
| Origin | pickup, 2010s |
| Related | Mindset; Calibration; Direct game; Indicator of interest |
Assume attraction is Chase Amante's stance: walk up as if there is already something to test, not as if you are applying for a job. later pickup essay, March 2014. It is a starting bet, not a trance.[1][2]
Method
- Open as if she might already like the look of you. Direct game fits this.
- Watch. If she is cold, calibrate — do not assume so hard you miss a no.
- Do not wait for an engraved IOI before you speak. The Newbie assignment does not.
Failure mode
Assuming so hard you ignore a freeze. Or the counterfeit: saying it while your face begs.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Chase Amante. Newbie Assignment. Skilled Seducer. 3 November 2012. Retrieved 18 September 2026.