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'''Auto-rejection''' is rejecting yourself (or her) in advance so the feared rejection never has to arrive from outside. You don't open; you decide she would have said no. You flake first. You friend-zone yourself. | '''Auto-rejection''' is rejecting yourself (or her) in advance so the feared rejection never has to arrive from outside. You don't open; you decide she would have said no. You flake first. You friend-zone yourself. | ||
<ref name="s">{{cite web |title=C:\Users\Robert\Desktop\glossary.md (2024-01-09), local PUA crib sheet. Encyclopedia expansion, not a paste. |website=Seduction Wiki sources |access-date=11 September 2026}}</ref> | |||
It is the inner-game twin of [[approach anxiety]] and a common engine under [[one-itis]] (better to keep the fantasy than risk the no). The [[Newbie assignment]]'s "hi" days exist to make auto-rejection expensive: you are not allowed home until the reps are done. | It is the inner-game twin of [[approach anxiety]] and a common engine under [[one-itis]] (better to keep the fantasy than risk the no). The [[Newbie assignment]]'s "hi" days exist to make auto-rejection expensive: you are not allowed home until the reps are done. | ||
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* [[Average frustrated chump]] | * [[Average frustrated chump]] | ||
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[[Category:Pickup artist terminology]] | [[Category:Pickup artist terminology]] | ||
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Latest revision as of 14:33, 11 September 2026
| Field | Inner game |
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| Also known as | pre-rejection, self-rejection
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Auto-rejection is rejecting yourself (or her) in advance so the feared rejection never has to arrive from outside. You don't open; you decide she would have said no. You flake first. You friend-zone yourself. [1] It is the inner-game twin of approach anxiety and a common engine under one-itis (better to keep the fantasy than risk the no). The Newbie assignment's "hi" days exist to make auto-rejection expensive: you are not allowed home until the reps are done.
See also
References
- ↑ C:\Users\Robert\Desktop\glossary.md (2024-01-09), local PUA crib sheet. Encyclopedia expansion, not a paste.. Seduction Wiki sources. Retrieved 11 September 2026.