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{{Short description|Using her reaction as the scoreboard}} | {{Short description|Using her reaction as the scoreboard}} | ||
{{Infobox term | {{Infobox term | ||
| name | | name = Validation | ||
| also | | also = validation-seeking, seeking approval | ||
| field | | field = Inner game | ||
| origin | | origin = Common; pickup usage [[neediness]] | ||
| related = [[Neediness]]; [[Outcome independence]]; [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Tryhard]] | | related = [[Neediness]]; [[Outcome independence]]; [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Tryhard]] | ||
| image | | image = Dice.jpg | ||
| caption | | caption = Dice (Commons). Validation-seeking makes her reaction the scoreboard. | ||
| alt | | alt = Dice | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''Validation''' in this jargon is using her reaction as the scoreboard: you need the laugh, the number, the reply. It is the inner face of [[neediness]]. [[Qualification (pickup)|Qualifying]] yourself (résumé, money talk) is the outer face.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 | '''Validation''' in this jargon is using her reaction as the scoreboard: you need the laugh, the number, the reply. It is the inner face of [[neediness]]. [[Qualification (pickup)|Qualifying]] yourself (résumé, money talk) is the outer face.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== In practice == | == In practice == | ||
Latest revision as of 09:08, 18 September 2026
Dice (Commons). Validation-seeking makes her reaction the scoreboard.
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| Field | Inner game |
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| Also known as | validation-seeking, seeking approval |
| Origin | Common; pickup usage neediness |
| Related | Neediness; Outcome independence; Qualification (pickup); Tryhard |
Validation in this jargon is using her reaction as the scoreboard: you need the laugh, the number, the reply. It is the inner face of neediness. Qualifying yourself (résumé, money talk) is the outer face.[1]
In practice
In practice: you can want her and still not need this one. That is outcome independence. The Newbie assignment collects blowouts so the scoreboard stops being a single face.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.