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{{Short description|She liked the interaction more than the résumé}} | {{Short description|She liked the interaction more than the résumé}} | ||
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| name | | name = She fell for the frame | ||
| also | | also = fell for the frame not the man | ||
| field | | field = Pickup | ||
| origin | | origin = Iceberg | ||
| related = [[Frame (seduction)]]; [[You are her reality]]; [[Authenticity]]; [[Congruence]] | | related = [[Frame (seduction)]]; [[You are her reality]]; [[Authenticity]]; [[Congruence]] | ||
| image | | image = Comedy and tragedy masks.svg | ||
| caption | | caption = Masks (Commons). If she only liked the act, the self was missing. | ||
| alt | | alt = Comedy and tragedy masks | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''She fell for the frame, not the man''' is iceberg wording for: the night worked as theater and failed as a person. In practice: that is the [[authenticity]] problem. Technique without a self gets a good set and a cold [[Day 2]]. Build the man, then the frame fits him.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia | '''She fell for the frame, not the man''' is iceberg wording for: the night worked as theater and failed as a person. In practice: that is the [[authenticity]] problem. Technique without a self gets a good set and a cold [[Day 2]]. Build the man, then the frame fits him.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Latest revision as of 09:07, 18 September 2026
 Masks (Commons). If she only liked the act, the self was missing.
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| Field | Pickup |
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| Also known as | fell for the frame not the man |
| Origin | Iceberg |
| Related | Frame (seduction); You are her reality; Authenticity; Congruence |
She fell for the frame, not the man is iceberg wording for: the night worked as theater and failed as a person. In practice: that is the authenticity problem. Technique without a self gets a good set and a cold Day 2. Build the man, then the frame fits him.[1][2]
Method
- If dates die when you stop performing, you have a frame and no self. See identity.
- Keep the useful technique. Drop the character she cannot live with.
- Congruence is the test.
Failure mode
Blaming her for liking the bit you ran. You ran it.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.