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{{Short description|Stop pursuing a maybe; let her spend}} | {{Short description|Stop pursuing a maybe; let her spend}} | ||
{{Infobox term | {{Infobox term | ||
| name | | name = Don't chase | ||
| also | | also = not chasing, stop chasing | ||
| field | | field = Pickup | ||
| origin | | origin = Folk line; pickup usage [[outcome independence]] | ||
| related = [[Outcome independence]]; [[Takeaway (pickup)]]; [[Investment]]; [[Pedestal]] | | related = [[Outcome independence]]; [[Takeaway (pickup)]]; [[Investment]]; [[Pedestal]] | ||
| image | | image = Door.jpg | ||
| caption | | caption = Door (Commons). Don't chase: you have somewhere to be. | ||
| alt | | alt = Door | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''Don't chase''' is folk advice that is true only after you have a self and other options. | '''Don't chase''' is folk advice that is true only after you have a self and other options. In practice it means: stop pouring into a maybe. [[Investment]] should tilt toward her. Later pickup: [[takeaway (pickup)|takeaway]], [[leading]] a real next beat, and a calendar that is not her.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Latest revision as of 09:05, 18 September 2026
 Door (Commons). Don't chase: you have somewhere to be.
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| Field | Pickup |
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| Also known as | not chasing, stop chasing |
| Origin | Folk line; pickup usage outcome independence |
| Related | Outcome independence; Takeaway (pickup); Investment; Pedestal |
Don't chase is folk advice that is true only after you have a self and other options. In practice it means: stop pouring into a maybe. Investment should tilt toward her. Later pickup: takeaway, leading a real next beat, and a calendar that is not her.[1][2]
Method
- If you are the only one suggesting times, stop. Let the silence work or walk.
- Have somewhere to be. That is a real takeaway, not a sulk.
- Qualify. If you cannot name a deal-breaker, you are chasing. See pedestal.
Failure mode
Performing 'I don't chase' while texting six times. That is neediness.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.