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{{Short description|She should be spending at least as much as you}} | {{Short description|She should be spending at least as much as you}} | ||
{{Infobox term | {{Infobox term | ||
| name | | name = Investment asymmetry | ||
| also | | also = asymmetric investment | ||
| field | | field = Pickup | ||
| origin | | origin = Iceberg / pickup [[investment]] | ||
| related = [[Investment]]; [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Neediness]]; [[Role reversal]] | | related = [[Investment]]; [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Neediness]]; [[Role reversal]] | ||
| image | | image = Handshake.jpg | ||
| caption | | caption = Handshake (Commons). Watch who is spending. | ||
| alt | | alt = Handshake | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''Investment asymmetry''' is the iceberg name for a lopsided spend: you plan, you text, you move; she consumes. | '''Investment asymmetry''' is the iceberg name for a lopsided spend: you plan, you text, you move; she consumes. In practice: tilt toward [[role reversal]]. Not a ledger. A readout.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Latest revision as of 09:06, 18 September 2026
 Handshake (Commons). Watch who is spending.
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| Field | Pickup |
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| Also known as | asymmetric investment |
| Origin | Iceberg / pickup investment |
| Related | Investment; Qualification (pickup); Neediness; Role reversal |
Investment asymmetry is the iceberg name for a lopsided spend: you plan, you text, you move; she consumes. In practice: tilt toward role reversal. Not a ledger. A readout.[1][2]
Method
- If you are the only one offering times, stop offering.
- Get her to pick, walk, talk. That is investment.
- Reward the spend. Don't punish it.
Failure mode
Keeping score like a divorce lawyer. Or ignoring a total one-way spend.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.
- ↑ Dating iceberg. Seduction Wiki. Retrieved 18 September 2026.