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{{Short description|A laugh is not a date; newbies confuse the two}} | {{Short description|A laugh is not a date; newbies confuse the two}} | ||
{{Infobox term | {{Infobox term | ||
| name | | name = Results vs reactions | ||
| also | | also = reactions vs results, reactions or results | ||
| field | | field = Mindset | ||
| origin | | origin = pickup, 2010s | ||
| related = [[Mindset]]; [[Number farming]]; [[Day 2]]; [[Play to win]] | | related = [[Mindset]]; [[Number farming]]; [[Day 2]]; [[Play to win]] | ||
| image | | image = Handshake.jpg | ||
| caption | | caption = Handshake (Commons). A laugh is a reaction; a date is a result. | ||
| alt | | alt = Handshake | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''Results vs reactions''' is Chase's 2011 distinction: newbies treat a laugh, a long chat, or a maybe-number as progress. Those are reactions. A result is a [[Day 2]], a bounce that lands, sex, a girlfriend — whatever you named.<ref name=" | '''Results vs reactions''' is Chase's 2011 distinction: newbies treat a laugh, a long chat, or a maybe-number as progress. Those are reactions. A result is a [[Day 2]], a bounce that lands, sex, a girlfriend — whatever you named.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
Latest revision as of 09:07, 18 September 2026
 Handshake (Commons). A laugh is a reaction; a date is a result.
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| Field | Mindset |
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| Also known as | reactions vs results, reactions or results |
| Origin | pickup, 2010s |
| Related | Mindset; Number farming; Day 2; Play to win |
Results vs reactions is Chase's 2011 distinction: newbies treat a laugh, a long chat, or a maybe-number as progress. Those are reactions. A result is a Day 2, a bounce that lands, sex, a girlfriend — whatever you named.[1]
Method
- After an outing, list results, not vibes. Did you get a time and place?
- A number without a when is number farming.
- Keep the reactions as calibration data. Do not cash them as wins.
Failure mode
A night of 'great conversations' and an empty calendar. That is the trap the essay names.
See also
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.