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{{Short description|Thought, self-image, and emotion underneath pickup}} | {{Short description|Thought, self-image, and emotion underneath pickup}} | ||
{{Infobox term | {{Infobox term | ||
| name | | name = Inner game | ||
| also | | also = mindset, cognition, self-talk | ||
| field | | field = Pickup | ||
| origin | | origin = 2000s pickup; pickup usage | ||
| related = [[Outer game]]; [[Mindset]]; [[Congruence]]; [[Authenticity]]; [[Outcome independence]] | | related = [[Outer game]]; [[Mindset]]; [[Congruence]]; [[Authenticity]]; [[Outcome independence]] | ||
| image | | image = Comedy and tragedy masks.svg | ||
| caption = Masks (Commons). Inner game is the picture behind the face. | | caption = Masks (Commons). Inner game is the picture behind the face. | ||
| alt | | alt = Comedy and tragedy masks | ||
}} | }} | ||
'''Inner game''' is the psychological half: self-image, self-talk, [[outcome independence]], [[abundance mentality]], [[approach anxiety]], [[one-itis]]. '''[[Outer game]]''' is what a bystander could film. | '''Inner game''' is the psychological half: self-image, self-talk, [[outcome independence]], [[abundance mentality]], [[approach anxiety]], [[one-itis]]. '''[[Outer game]]''' is what a bystander could film. Some writers map the split onto cognitive vs behavior therapy: inner game is cognition; outer game is behavior. Both beat either alone.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref> | ||
Inner game is not the whole art. The late-2000s inner-game fashion often left beginners vaguer: they needed what to *do*. Outer game first; inner catches up once there is evidence. | |||
== Method == | == Method == | ||
# Go outside. | # Go outside. Inner-game training is dressed as homework: observation, posture, eye contact, talking to strangers, numbers. Affirmations without approaches are a stall. | ||
# After a night, name the leak in one sentence: [[neediness]], one-itis, waiting for an [[IOI]], [[auto-rejection]]. That is a [[sticking point]]. Fix the behavior next time, not the poetry. | # After a night, name the leak in one sentence: [[neediness]], one-itis, waiting for an [[IOI]], [[auto-rejection]]. That is a [[sticking point]]. Fix the behavior next time, not the poetry. | ||
# Build a self that is not this girl: work, friends, body, a night that exists if she leaves. That is abundance and [[identity]]. Then [[congruence]] has something to match. | # Build a self that is not this girl: work, friends, body, a night that exists if she leaves. That is abundance and [[identity]]. Then [[congruence]] has something to match. | ||
A common coaching line is that outer is easier to train, and inner catches up when outer is tight. | |||
== Other schools == | == Other schools == | ||
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* [[Neediness]] | * [[Neediness]] | ||
* [[Sticking point]] | * [[Sticking point]] | ||
* [[One-itis]] | |||
* [[Approach anxiety]] | |||
== References == | == References == | ||
Latest revision as of 01:01, 19 September 2026
 Masks (Commons). Inner game is the picture behind the face.
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| Field | Pickup |
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| Also known as | mindset, cognition, self-talk |
| Origin | 2000s pickup; pickup usage |
| Related | Outer game; Mindset; Congruence; Authenticity; Outcome independence |
Inner game is the psychological half: self-image, self-talk, outcome independence, abundance mentality, approach anxiety, one-itis. Outer game is what a bystander could film. Some writers map the split onto cognitive vs behavior therapy: inner game is cognition; outer game is behavior. Both beat either alone.[1]
Inner game is not the whole art. The late-2000s inner-game fashion often left beginners vaguer: they needed what to *do*. Outer game first; inner catches up once there is evidence.
Method
- Go outside. Inner-game training is dressed as homework: observation, posture, eye contact, talking to strangers, numbers. Affirmations without approaches are a stall.
- After a night, name the leak in one sentence: neediness, one-itis, waiting for an IOI, auto-rejection. That is a sticking point. Fix the behavior next time, not the poetry.
- Build a self that is not this girl: work, friends, body, a night that exists if she leaves. That is abundance and identity. Then congruence has something to match.
A common coaching line is that outer is easier to train, and inner catches up when outer is tight.
Other schools
RSD / "inner is everything." Useful as diagnosis (the hostage face). Useless as a reason to skip talking to people.
Mystery-era. Less vocabulary; freeze-ups still happened. They treated them as state, not as a lifestyle.
Failure mode
Reading inner-game essays instead of the assignment. Or the reverse: stacked routines with a mind that still believes one girl is the whole night.
See also
- Outer game
- Mindset
- Authenticity
- Identity
- Outcome independence
- Neediness
- Sticking point
- One-itis
- Approach anxiety
References
- ↑ Pickup artist. Wikipedia. Retrieved 18 September 2026.