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{{Short description|After she DHVs, reward it and connect}}
{{Infobox term
| name    = Reward and relate
| also    = reward & relate
| field   = Pickup
| origin  = PUA Lingo / Mystery-era
| related = [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Push-pull]]
}}
'''Reward and relate''' is the A3 follow-through: when she shows a trait you actually like, you reward it (genuine pull) and relate (a small story of your own), instead of poker-facing the whole night.<ref name="lingo">{{cite web |url=http://www.pualingo.com/ |title=PUA Lingo |author=Vince Lin |website=PUA Lingo |date=2008 |access-date=11 September 2026}}</ref>

It is how [[qualification (pickup)|qualification]] stays human. All screen and no reward is an interview.

== See also ==
* [[Qualification (pickup)]]
* [[Demonstration of higher value]]
* [[Push-pull]]

== References ==
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