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{{Short description|Standards she can feel; not a lecture about boundaries}}
{{Infobox term
| name    = Boundaries are attractive
| also    = having boundaries
| field   = Pickup
| origin  = Folk / iceberg; house use is [[qualification (pickup)|qualification]]
| related = [[Qualification (pickup)]]; [[Frame (seduction)]]; [[Pedestal]]; [[Congruence]]
| image          = Chess pieces.jpg
| caption        = Chess (Commons). A boundary is a standard you keep.
| alt            = Chess pieces
}}
'''Boundaries are attractive''' is folk advice that is true when the boundary is real. In practice: [[qualification (pickup)|qualification]] and a deal-breaker you will walk on. Announcing your boundaries as a speech is a résumé.<ref name="wp">{{cite web |url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist |title=Pickup artist |website=Wikipedia |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="na">{{cite web |url=https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/ |title=Newbie Assignment |author=Chase Amante |website=Skilled Seducer |date=3 November 2012 |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref>

== Method ==
# Have one thing you will actually leave over. Leave if it hits.
# Don't explain the philosophy.
# Warmth plus a wall beats a wall with a TED talk.

== Failure mode ==
Boundaries as a brand. Or no boundaries plus a podcast about them.

== See also ==
* [[Qualification (pickup)]]
* [[Frame (seduction)]]
* [[Pedestal]]
* [[Never seek approval]]

== References ==
{{Reflist}}

[[Category:Pickup artist terminology]]
[[Category:Glossary]]
[[Category:Pickup]]