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{{Short description|Take space so the room has to deal with you}}
{{Infobox term
| name    = Draw with your presence
| also    = presence, occupy space
| field   = Fundamentals
| origin  = [[Girls Chase]] fundamentals / iceberg
| related = [[Open body language]]; [[State]]; [[Preselection]]; [[Walk]]
| image          = Smile.jpg
| caption        = Smile (Commons). Presence is space plus calm, not volume.
| alt            = Smile
}}
'''Draw with your presence''' is iceberg wording for occupying space so people notice you before you speak. House reading: [[open body language]], still feet, a face that is not scanning for threat. It is a fundamental. It is not staring down the bar.<ref name="gc">{{cite web |url=https://www.girlschase.com/ |title=Girls Chase |website=girlschase.com |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="na">{{cite web |url=https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/ |title=Newbie Assignment |author=Chase Amante |website=Skilled Seducer |date=3 November 2012 |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref>

== Method ==
# Slow down the walk-in. Assignment posture.
# Stop fidgeting the phone.
# Then open. Presence without a walk-up is just standing there.

== Failure mode ==
Looming. Or presence as a substitute for talking.

== See also ==
* [[Open body language]]
* [[Walk]]
* [[State]]
* [[Attractiveness fundamentals]]

== References ==
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