Don't fix her problems - Revision history

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	{{Short description\|You are not her caseworker in minute ten}}		{{Short description\|You are not her caseworker in minute ten}}
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	\| name = Don't fix her problems		\| name = Don't fix her problems
	\| also = don't be her therapist		\| also = don't be her therapist
	\| field = Pickup		\| field = Pickup
	\| origin = Iceberg / ~~later~~ pickup ~~writing rapport~~		\| origin = Iceberg / pickup
	\| related = [[Rapport]]; [[The friend zone]]; [[Deep diving]]; [[Sexualization]]		\| related = [[Rapport]]; [[The friend zone]]; [[Deep diving]]; [[Sexualization]]
	\| image = Conversation.jpg		\| image = Conversation.jpg
	\| caption = Conversation (Commons). Rapport is not casework.		\| caption = Conversation (Commons). Rapport is not casework.
	\| alt = Conversation		\| alt = Conversation
	}}		}}
	'''Don't fix her problems''' is iceberg advice: you are not her therapist on first contact. In practice: [[rapport]] is a beat, not a clinic. [[Deep diving]] is her talking about something real — not you solving her landlord.<ref name="wp">{{cite web \|url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist \|title=Pickup artist \|website=Wikipedia \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="na">{{cite web \|url=https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/ \|title=Newbie Assignment \|author=Chase Amante \|website=Skilled Seducer \|date=3 November 2012 \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web \|url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg \|title=Dating iceberg \|website=Seduction Wiki \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref>		'''Don't fix her problems''' is iceberg advice: you are not her therapist on first contact. In practice: [[rapport]] is a beat, not a clinic. [[Deep diving]] is her talking about something real — not you solving her landlord.<ref name="wp">{{cite web \|url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist \|title=Pickup artist \|website=Wikipedia \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web \|url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg \|title=Dating iceberg \|website=Seduction Wiki \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref>

	== Method ==		== Method ==

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	\| also = don't be her therapist		\| also = don't be her therapist
	\| field = Pickup		\| field = Pickup
	\| origin = Iceberg / ~~[[Girls Chase]]~~ rapport		\| origin = Iceberg / later pickup writing rapport
	\| related = [[Rapport]]; [[The friend zone]]; [[Deep diving]]; [[Sexualization]]		\| related = [[Rapport]]; [[The friend zone]]; [[Deep diving]]; [[Sexualization]]
	\| image = Conversation.jpg		\| image = Conversation.jpg
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	'''Don't fix her problems''' is iceberg advice: you are not her therapist on first contact. ~~House reading~~: [[rapport]] is a beat, not a clinic. [[Deep diving]] is her talking about something real — not you solving her landlord.<ref name="gc">{{cite web \|url=https://~~www~~.~~girlschase~~.~~com~~/ \|title=~~Girls Chase~~ \|website=~~girlschase.com~~ \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="na">{{cite web \|url=https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/ \|title=Newbie Assignment \|author=Chase Amante \|website=Skilled Seducer \|date=3 November 2012 \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web \|url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg \|title=Dating iceberg \|website=Seduction Wiki \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref>		'''Don't fix her problems''' is iceberg advice: you are not her therapist on first contact. In practice: [[rapport]] is a beat, not a clinic. [[Deep diving]] is her talking about something real — not you solving her landlord.<ref name="wp">{{cite web \|url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist \|title=Pickup artist \|website=Wikipedia \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="na">{{cite web \|url=https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/ \|title=Newbie Assignment \|author=Chase Amante \|website=Skilled Seducer \|date=3 November 2012 \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web \|url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg \|title=Dating iceberg \|website=Seduction Wiki \|access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref>

	== Method ==		== Method ==

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Dating iceberg v2: gold concepts + index + folk redirects

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{{Short description|You are not her caseworker in minute ten}}
{{Infobox term
| name = Don't fix her problems
| also = don't be her therapist
| field = Pickup
| origin = Iceberg / [[Girls Chase]] rapport
| related = [[Rapport]]; [[The friend zone]]; [[Deep diving]]; [[Sexualization]]
| image = Conversation.jpg
| caption = Conversation (Commons). Rapport is not casework.
| alt = Conversation
}}
'''Don't fix her problems''' is iceberg advice: you are not her therapist on first contact. House reading: [[rapport]] is a beat, not a clinic. [[Deep diving]] is her talking about something real — not you solving her landlord.<ref name="gc">{{cite web |url=https://www.girlschase.com/ |title=Girls Chase |website=girlschase.com |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="na">{{cite web |url=https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/ |title=Newbie Assignment |author=Chase Amante |website=Skilled Seducer |date=3 November 2012 |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref><ref name="ice">{{cite web |url=https://seduction.wiki/wiki/Dating_iceberg |title=Dating iceberg |website=Seduction Wiki |access-date=18 September 2026}}</ref>

== Method ==
# Listen one beat. Don't leap to a plan.
# Tease or lead out of the hole. You are not the help desk.
# If the whole set is her venting, you are in friend-shaped territory. Sexualize or leave.

== Failure mode ==
Fixing as a way to be useful because you have no other game. That's the nice-guy funnel.

== See also ==
* [[Rapport]]
* [[The friend zone]]
* [[Deep diving]]
* [[Don't be a friend]]

== References ==
{{Reflist}}

[[Category:Pickup artist terminology]]
[[Category:Glossary]]
[[Category:Pickup]]